PEX needs a thread where Pinoy males can talk all about their experiences dating or getting married to Western women!
If any of you Pinoy males out there have had experiences being with Western women, feel free to discuss it here in this thread! Caucasian women are easier to go out on a date than pinays, sorry to say this. I regret not entertaining foreign women before, even if they are the ones approaching me because I was pig headed in thinking that pinays are the only ones I should entertain.
And please tell me of your experiences so I know what to expect when I start looking and dating. Hi there I'm a white (Caucasian) English girl/woman.
I'm not married to a Pinoy but I did meet a really nice guy when I came over for a trip over Christmas and New Year.
Have a good friend of mine got married to a spanish girl, they even sent me an invitation to their wedding in spain which I did not attend due to hectic sched and could not afford a ticket.
Some pointers for Filipinos (as in those born and raised in the Philippines) who are dating or about to date Western women: 1. If you keep on talking about these, you will get dumped and left on the sidewalk. Act like a man, don't be shy or don't be too careful not to embarasse yourself. They like it when you embarase yourself sometimes for their sake. Don't be too "gentleman" (Opening a can of soda for her, carrying her handbag, etc.). Don't you ever try to tell them not to wear their tiny bikini because you think it's too revealing (See pointers 5 and 6).
There were a lot of adjustmnents and conflicts of culture and interest that some of them almost shattered our relationship to pieces.
But I love my wife so much and she loves me even more.
This question has been bugging me for the longest time.
But I notice their numbers are way fewer than the pinay women who marry foreigners.